What is holding YOU back?

That thing that is holding us up from the life we want is likely that thing we are most proud of telling the world that we are.

• Being “Strong” robs us of closeness and affinity with others, we won’t let others hurt us, but we won’t let them in either
• Being “Independent” robs us of the contribution from others, we won’t let others who truly LOVE us help us at all. They will feel pushed away when they really want to be closest to us
• Being a “Hard Worker” may rob you of full enjoyment of life and time with those people, places and activities that you need and want to to spend time with
• Being a “Problem Solver” may rob you of connection and growth with others because you know EVERYTHING. A know-it-all is not someone who people LOVE to be around

So what does being a strong, independant, hard working person who solves the worlds problems give you?

Not Much I think if you want a life that you really love!

It MIGHT look like this: You are someone who is making a good living, but may not have a real life and with a lot of people who are dependent on you for everything.

Your pictures, memes and quotes looks great on IG, Twitter and Facebook, but after the picture is taken you will need some rest because that life is exhausting!

Now, if you think this means you should be weak, needy, lazy and dumb, then you are missing the point. The point is this: You are not letting the sunshine into your life because you have your armor on all the time.

The armor may feel comfortable and like its keeping you safe, but it is SO heavy!

Drop you armor for a minute and join the party called LIFE.

A lot of people are waiting for you to swing by and say hello and maybe give them that hug that says “I’m with you”! Because you don’t have forever!

Oh and BTW I ain’t talking to you I’m mostly talking to myself.

Hopefully you see something in here for you!