This is a follow up post to "I am not your n---a" First, let me re-introduce myself. My name is Charles Christopher Primas! My first name: I was named Charles because there was the thinking that I should be named after my father (Charlie), but my mother wanted my name to be more formal, thus... Continue Reading →
You see, as Black People what we SAY we want from each other sounds good Some things Black Women might say is that they want a brother who Is a leaderIs compassionate/understandingIs emotionally availableWants to be a good fatherIs Masculine, but not toxicIs Monogamous/FaithfulIs protective, but not dominatingCan guide but not controlling Some things Black... Continue Reading →
Watch the video first, then see my response!! https://youtu.be/dp3WWqu4bh8 WOW! This was deep. This sister is deep! She has LOTS to say that hits home. Some of the comments on the video seem to reinforce what she is saying. Some comments are very triggering and painful to read (at least to me!). A couple sisters... Continue Reading →
You do not live in reality! You think you do, but you really do not. Lets start with the definition of Reality: The world or the state of things as they actually exist, as opposed to an idealistic or notional idea of them. 100% of humanity (me included) lives in the world after the comma.... Continue Reading →
This is a re-post of a page I find very enlightening. I like to copy and paste articles like this in my blog so you can see them. Of course, I must give credit where it is due: The Main page is below and it has LOTS of powerful articles to read. Conversations For Transformation... Continue Reading →
The question on the table: Do Black Men Love Black women: Well....here are some things to think about! You are EVERYTHING to us You are our mothersYou are our sistersYou are our auntsYou are our cousinsYou are our daughtersYou are our wives and partners We came up together We went to the same schoolsGrew up... Continue Reading →
I am writing this from the male perspective and it may be used by some women as a hammer to their men, but I am choosing not to worry about that other than to say that I hope it provides a context for meaningful discussion. To be clear: It is my perspective and NOT my... Continue Reading →
Since it is Men's Mental Health Month, I have been coming back to the lyrics of the Song "Only God Can Judge Me" by Tupac. That song is so loaded with powerful words (if you think on them and can handle a little rough language), Here is the part of the song I think is... Continue Reading →
1.5 Million Missing Black Men By JUSTIN WOLFERS, DAVID LEONHARDT and KEVIN QUEALY APRIL 20, 2015 Original Link: https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2015/04/20/upshot/missing-black-men.htmlhttps://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2015/04/20/upshot/missing-black-men.html For every 100 black women not in jail, there are only 83 black men. The remaining men – 1.5 million of them – are, in a sense, missing. In New York, almost 120,000 black men between the ages of 25 and 54... Continue Reading →
For Black boys, discrimination during adolescence leads to depression two decades later when they are adults.
Quiet Thunder 
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