The world would be so much better if we would stop worrying about the past and deal with what's in front of us. Let me try to help you out No: You did not ask that girl out in High School (and in college too), you chickened outDamn! Dad did not let you buy that... Continue Reading →
Pain: We LOVE you NOT!
Well, I drank a high caffeine beverage too late, could not sleep and was reading social media and I think part of what makes it so depressing this this: What (some) people do is this: They take their pain, make it the "truth" then spread it out and package it up as "wisdom". And some... Continue Reading →
Time to let my shield down!
I am pretty clear my fundamental way of being is telling the world this: I will do it myself, leave me the f--k alone What that really translates into is: I really want to just be alone (where its safe) I believe that it is not safe to let people close to me because I... Continue Reading →
Thank you for the apology, here is one we should owe you back!
Watch the video first, then see my response!! https://youtu.be/dp3WWqu4bh8 WOW! This was deep. This sister is deep! She has LOTS to say that hits home. Some of the comments on the video seem to reinforce what she is saying. Some comments are very triggering and painful to read (at least to me!). A couple sisters... Continue Reading →
TBT on Feb 10th 2022: Conversation with the younger me!
Its a Thursday, so this is my throwback! This is me at somewhere between 10-12 years old. I decided that I would do something a bit different! If the current version of me were talking to him, he would say to him: Keep that smile and don't let anyone take it from youYou deserve to... Continue Reading →
My I Have a Dream Speech: I have a dream too!
My I Have a Dream Speech I will use some of the original text, I think this is called a re-mix…LOL! Not as good as the original (nothing ever is), but my reflections on it from today's perspective. On September 22, 1862, a great American signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a... Continue Reading →
Ally vs Supporter: There is a HUGE difference!
I have been hearing talk about a lot of circles and causes calling on their "allies" to support their cause. I think that what many people think of as allies are really just supporters. To me the difference is HUGE and here is my attempt to clarify. Of course lets start with the definitions Supporter... Continue Reading →
2021 – Repeat of 2020….Sadly I think so and 2022 looks worse unless we change fast :-(
Hello Readers: I must admit that for the first time in my life, I am genuinely afraid of where our country is headed. Let me start with the questions I ended my last post of 2020 with Will 2021 Be a better year? Not if we are not better people! I stated this: If we... Continue Reading →






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