Lift Every Voice and…..Cry

We are all familiar with the first part of the Negro National Anthem, so I won't put that here. The Negro National Anthem was written by James Weldon Johnson and put to music by his brother J Rosamond Johnson. Both men were born within a decade of the "official" end of slavery in the USA.... Continue Reading →

Lets talk about forgiveness

Just so you know, this is not purely a "race" discussion, this is a discussion of my feelings on ANYONE who inflicts their power on anyone else willfully. If you REALLY know me, you know I feel this way: strength and power are given in order to protect those who have less than you or... Continue Reading →

Lets talk about the S word

I am writing this from the male perspective and it may be used by some women as a hammer to their men, but I am choosing not to worry about that other than to say that I hope it provides a context for meaningful discussion. To be clear: It is my perspective and NOT my... Continue Reading →

That Masculinity Thing: Or at least what I think

I was asked to share my thoughts on a good definition of masculinity. Well this is my attempt 🙂 Lets start with the Wikipedia "Definition" Standards of manliness or masculinity vary across different cultures and historical periods. Traits traditionally viewed as masculine in Western society include strength, courage, independence, leadership, and assertiveness. Machismo is a... Continue Reading →

What is holding YOU back?

That thing that is holding us up from the life we want is likely that thing we are most proud of telling the world that we are. Being "Strong" robs us of closeness and affinity with others, we won't let others hurt us, but we won't let them in eitherBeing "Independent" robs us of the... Continue Reading →

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