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The Past is OVER: Deal with today!
The world would be so much better if we would stop worrying about the past and deal with what's in front of us. Let me try to help you out No: You did not ask that girl out in High School (and in college too), you chickened outDamn! Dad did not let you buy that... Continue Reading →
Pain: We LOVE you NOT!
Well, I drank a high caffeine beverage too late, could not sleep and was reading social media and I think part of what makes it so depressing this this: What (some) people do is this: They take their pain, make it the "truth" then spread it out and package it up as "wisdom". And some... Continue Reading →
Time to let my shield down!
I am pretty clear my fundamental way of being is telling the world this: I will do it myself, leave me the f--k alone What that really translates into is: I really want to just be alone (where its safe) I believe that it is not safe to let people close to me because I... Continue Reading →
Thank you for the apology, here is one we should owe you back!
Watch the video first, then see my response!! https://youtu.be/dp3WWqu4bh8 WOW! This was deep. This sister is deep! She has LOTS to say that hits home. Some of the comments on the video seem to reinforce what she is saying. Some comments are very triggering and painful to read (at least to me!). A couple sisters... Continue Reading →
To my brothers, time to make a declaration!
I think I will begin this post with what I ended with on the previous post. Except thismessage is not just to the younger me, this is to all my fellow Black Men and (yes) also to our younger brothers coming up. Well, that one was too! You are Gods creation and you are unique... Continue Reading →
TBT on Feb 10th 2022: Conversation with the younger me!
Its a Thursday, so this is my throwback! This is me at somewhere between 10-12 years old. I decided that I would do something a bit different! If the current version of me were talking to him, he would say to him: Keep that smile and don't let anyone take it from youYou deserve to... Continue Reading →
I am Black & Male and I am also MAGICAL!
This message is for my brothers: Anyone else can "listen" in, but this is aimed right at my fellow melanated men! Here is the first thing you need to get: Just about everything you have heard about us is a LIE! Our woman say we are disloyal and do not want to get married to... Continue Reading →






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